Graham Platner鈥檚 wife called the media reports that her husband had previously exchanged sexually explicit text messages with several women 鈥渟hameful” over the weekend, the latest controversy to hit the Maine Democrat鈥檚 whirlwind Senate campaign.
Platner, an oyster farmer and combat veteran, posted a video taken by his wife, Amy Gertner, who reportedly told his campaign of the text messages last year. In the five-minute video, Gertner avoided speaking directly about her husband’s reported texts, dubbing the broader coverage as 鈥済ossip” and saying that 鈥渂eing married is hard.鈥
鈥淚 find it really shameful that there鈥檚 a group of media outlets and people who are willing to spread gossip,鈥 she said in the informal, selfie-style video where she walked along a road. 鈥淣o marriage is perfect, and I don’t want a perfect marriage. I want my marriage.鈥
Platner is seeking the Democratic nomination for one of the most closely watched Senate races as Democrats hope to defeat longtime Republican Sen. Susan Collins in the party’s efforts to win control of the narrowly divided Senate. The Maine primary is June 9.
Genevieve McDonald, a then-campaign staffer for Platner, told the The Associated Press that the candidate was 鈥渟exting multiple women while married” and that 鈥渢he campaign tried to assess that as an election vulnerability.鈥
Platner told reporters Sunday that what McDonald had said wasn鈥檛 true. Asked if he was confirming that the text messages didn鈥檛 exist, Platner replied, 鈥淚鈥檓 confirming that what Genevieve McDonald said in The New York Times is not true.鈥 Platner didn’t provide any specifics. He was referring to a Times story that names McDonald Saturday, after first reported the story.
Gertner had told the campaign in August about the messages, which she had discovered on his phone last year, to make sure they weren’t a liability to the campaign, according to the Wall Street Journal. Platner’s campaign team reportedly decided that the texts were private and being handled by the couple, who were married in 2023. The two are in counseling, Gertner has said.
Platner told reporters that he and Gertner spoke with the campaign about their marriage, but reiterated that McDonald鈥檚 claims were false.
Platner’s campaign on Sunday did not specifically confirm the text messages to the AP, but issued a statement from Gertner saying the disclosure of the conversations she had with a campaign aide was a betrayal that 鈥渄eeply hurt.鈥
鈥淚 trusted this person with the most private chapter of our lives 鈥 the early days of our marriage before any campaign was on our mind,” she wrote.
It’s not Platner’s first controversy
Platner, who has never held public office, has a gruff, less buttoned-up approach on the campaign trail, fashioned a platform around economic equality and has already had to navigate statements that surfaced from his past.
The candidate had a , which he said he didn’t realize until he was several weeks into the campaign. There’s also been much attention on his former Reddit posts, which were dismissive of military sexual assaults and used homophobic slurs, for which he has apologized.
Platner’s campaign weathered those earlier revelations in what had been considered one of the most competitive Democratic primaries before Gov. Janet Mills dropped out of the race in late April due to a lack of campaign funds. Mills, a two-term governor, had been seen as one of the Democrats’ top 2026 recruits when she entered the Senate race before her campaign fizzled out.
Platner has still pulled support from big-name Democrats, including Sens. Bernie Sanders, Elizabeth Warren and Ruben Gallego as well as U.S. House Rep. Ro Khanna. The latter is scheduled to rally with Platner on Friday, and so far, it appears he hasn’t lost any endorsements with this latest texting revelation.
Two Democratic senators on Sunday declined to directly address the topic when pressed by reporters. Connecticut Sen. Chris Murphy told CBS’ 鈥淔ace the Nation鈥 that Platner had served his country and community, but 鈥渁lso made mistakes and he has admitted that.鈥
On CNN鈥檚 鈥淪tate of the Union,” New Jersey Sen. Andy Kim sidestepped, too. 鈥淲ith any campaign in the country, the character and the transparency about the different candidates is going to come out,鈥 said Kim, 鈥渁nd the voters are going to decide what they ultimately think.”
Barreling forward Sunday, Platner posted a video on X from an event 鈥渉appening now鈥 where he entered a room to a standing ovation from ecstatic supporters.
Questions over whether additional controversial information about Platner could still surface have added to some Democrats’ anxiety over his chances in a general election against Collins, who has represented Maine in the Senate since 1997.
In October, after the revelation that he once had a Totenkopf tattoo on his chest and promptly had it covered, the AP asked him if other scandals were on the horizon.
Platner said he was expecting his opponents were 鈥済oing to keep dragging things up.鈥
鈥淭hey鈥檙e going to keep making things up,鈥 he said. 鈥淚 fully expect people to just lie about me at this point.鈥
Voters are familiar with the couple’s struggles, including with infertility and traveling out of the country to afford IVF treatment, which they’ve discussed on the campaign trail.
In late April, Platner shared that Gertner had suffered a miscarriage, and he鈥檚 discussed his own mental health struggles and the role of his family and therapist in helping.
Former aide explains why she went public
McDonald initially worked on Platner鈥檚 campaign as his political director and resigned a few months later when his now-deleted Reddit posts began surfacing, saying she couldn鈥檛 stand behind him as a candidate. She later declined a severance offer from the campaign in exchange for signing a non-disclosure agreement.
On Saturday, McDonald wrote on Facebook that Platner鈥檚 campaign had 鈥渄emanded鈥 she retract her statements she had made to The Wall Street Journal or his team would accuse her of violating the couple’s trust. McDonald wasn鈥檛 named in the newspaper’s article, but after that exchange, she said she made the choice to be publicly named in a New York Times story.
鈥淗is consultants greatly overestimate how much I do not aspire to be them,鈥 she wrote on Facebook.
After resigning from Platner鈥檚 campaign, McDonald moved to help Democrat Jordan Wood鈥檚 congressional campaign in Maine鈥檚 second district. McDonald submitted her resignation from Wood鈥檚 campaign Saturday morning, according to Wood鈥檚 campaign.
Wood endorsed Platner after Mills dropped out.
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Bedayn reported from Austin, Texas and Kruesi reported from Providence, Rhode Island.
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